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We don't lie because we love lying, we lie because we are so scared that if we tell the truth, people will leave, and then the void will be even bigger.

we don't envy because we hate other people, we envy because we look at their lives and it reminds us of everything we don't have.

We don't get greedy because we love money or things, we get greedy because we think if we have enough, we will finally feel safe.

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In your 20's you hustle hard, learn fast, network heavy and listen a lot. Save your money, hoard your cash and invest in tangible things that appreciate in value.Take risks and If you decide to date and marry make sure he or she is financially responsible and both of you are on the same page for the future. If not, move away and stay single.

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Understanding that people are human.

everyone has the capability of bad behavior. even despicable behavior. So, you shouldn’t be suprised when you encounter people that are selfish, arrogant, and liars. You should train yourself to expect these human traits, because it helps prevent unnecessary crashouts. Your roommate can be messy, a friend can act jealous, a teacher can be unfair, your partner can be selfish, and you can address that, but you shouldn't spend hours thinking about why they would do that. its useless. people get jealous and are selfish. Anyways, you should expect misbehaviour, but you shouldn't excuse it.

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THINGS YOU PROBABLY WON'T REGRET.

Studying more. Reading more books. Drinking more water. Making new friends. Being more honest. Following your passion. Going to bed early. Meditating more. Quitting a job you absolutely hate. Being kind to a stranger. Taking a break when you need one. Listening to your heart. Looking after your body. Crying when you need to. Putting yourself first. Leaving your comfort zone when you need to.
Hugging someone you love. Going on more adventure. Accepting your imperfections. Telling your loved ones how much you care about them. Understanding your emotions. Taking care of your mental health. Trusting your intuition. Letting go of toxic people. Finding your purpose. Loving yourself more.

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Judging myself by my process, not by what happens to me.

I used to place way too much merit on my achievements, believing that they defined me. but to be real, nobody can guarantee they will get into their dream college, get hired to their dream job, win a competition, or beat someone at a sport. What you can guarantee is how much you studied, if you practiced, whether you asked for help, if you were brave even when you were afraid, or if you quit and didn’t show up. So for me its never "I have to succeed," I just force myself to behave in the way that makes success happen.

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You asked for the opportunity, and now it's demanding everything from you.

You asked for the change, and now it's uncomfortable in ways you didn't prepare for.
That discomfort isn't a sign something went wrong.

That's exactly what receiving what you asked for feels like.
The gift and the weight arrive in the same box.

Carry it. You ordered this.

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Don’t try to control other's opinions.

Their perception of you belongs to them in the past, I have spent hours overthinking interactions I’ve had and wondering if I was too chalant, why someone didn't message me back, or if I look like I’m trying too hard. In reality, they have already formed their opinion, whether I like it or not. Why would I try to control that? I control whether I‘m kind, honest, or doing my best. And that’s what really matters.

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When we attach our identity to outcomes outside our control:

Whether that's a person choosing us, a client signing with us, or an opportunity working out... we hand our emotional stability to something unpredictable. And the more attached we become, the more unstable our confidence becomes.

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You're always going to be young in someone's eyes and old in others.
Talented to one and terrible to the next.
The world is never going to agree on a definition of what you are, so you might as well ignore all that and be whatever you want to be for yourself.

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Stop feeling guilty for choosing yourself.

You don't have to attend every event, reply instantly, or make yourself available all the time. Sometimes protecting your peace means disappointing someone else instead of constantly disappointing yourself.
Remember: "No" is a complete sentence. Rest isn't something you have to earn. Your time is valuable, too.

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The older I get, the more I see why it's important to only keep people around who have the same morals, manners, and sense of consideration as you. You reach a certain stage in life where chaos and disrespect just aren't entertaining anymore.

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Be so great that they can't ignore you. Work hard, develop your skills and talents, demonstrate leadership qualities. Be so outstanding that others see your value and can't pass you by.

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A man's strength isn't measured by the amount of money in his pockets, nor the value of his words. A man is measured by what he builds after everything falls apart - even if it might all fall again.

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What’s done is done. What’s happened has already happened. Maybe it was wonderful. Maybe it wasn’t. But, regardless, I can’t keep opening up old wounds. I can’t keep picking at scars ready for them to bleed. I can’t keep opening up my heart until all of it has dissolved right in front of me.

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Life races forward at a rapid pace. If you don't stop for a moment and look around, you risk missing important moments. Allow yourself to slow down, enjoy the present, and appreciate what surrounds you. Every moment is a gift worth cherishing. Don't let time slip away unnoticed - live consciously and with an open heart.

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Every new day opens up endless possibilities for you. Every success achieved is a reason to be proud. Don't forget to celebrate your achievements, even the smallest ones. They are important steps on the path to your dreams. Allow yourself to rejoice in your growth and be inspired to new achievements!

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You'll regret it if you get married. You'll regret it if you don't. "Whatever you choose, you'll regret it. Because the problem isn't in your choices; it's in romanticizing a life you haven't lived. A person always finds an untraveled path alluring and mysterious. That's why the issue isn't making the right choice. It's choosing and deciding which regret you'll live with.

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In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take, the relationships we were too afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make.

Regret does not just come from doing the wrong thing. Sometimes it comes from doing absolutely nothing. From caring in silence because your ego would rather lose the person than look vulnerable.

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The loneliness of young adulthood.

The loneliness here is subtle. It is the five-minute wave of nostalgia that hits while you are washing dishes. It is standing in a grocery store and suddenly feeling grief for something you cannot even name. It is realizing that you will never be this young again and that this is the first time you have ever been this old. It is looking back at sixteen and feeling like that version of you is both familiar and unreachable. You don’t remember how you moved from that point to this one so quickly. you only know that you did. and now you are here in shoes that are too big for you.

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Be delusional about your potential. Believe in your dreams with a stubbornness that borders on obsession. Even if it means failing. Even if the world laughs at the attempt. Because the real danger is not failure. The real danger is drowning in the quiet belief that you were never capable of more. The road may be vast. It may never truly end. But as long as you keep walking, you are still becoming.

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Live your life by your own rules

Life is not about the number of years lived, but the quality of the experiences. Your time on Earth is limited, so don't spend it living someone else's life. You only have one life, and only you can decide what it will be like. Don't let others define your path; choose it yourself.

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The best way to start is to stop talking and start doing

You yourself are responsible for your life. It doesn't matter where you're from or what your strengths and weaknesses are. You are responsible for most of the situations that happen to you.
Excuses only slow down your development and prevent you from achieving success. This is your life, and only you can make it the way you want.

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Forget about people from the past.

If your paths have diverged with someone, then it was meant to be. There is no need to bring them back. You are already a completely different person after some time. That former person is gone too. Everything you cling to are old memories that have nothing to do with the present. That's it, you are different now. Those emotions and feelings will no longer be there. It's all over. Everything has run its course.

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Smile like you've never cried.
Fight like you've never lost.
Love like you've never been hurt and live like you'll die tomorrow.

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All roads lead back to yourself, to the standards you ignored, the boundaries you softened, the intuition you doubted. Life keeps repeating lessons until you finally listen and become a better version of yourself.

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It's okay if it takes a little longer than you thought.

When you stop rushing, you gain clarity, skill, patience, and understanding. It's not about the finish line - it's about learning and growing along the way. Some of the most meaningful things happen when you're not timing them perfectly - they align at their own perfect timing.
Time is never an enemy unless you make it one. You have to cooperate with it. The clock doesn't stop, so there's no "wasted time,". There's always another train, another moment, another chance.

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You need to train yourself not to take anything personally!

What others say reflects themselves, their fears and desires; They are unable to reach the bottom of your motives, because it is too deep and sprinkled with golden sand. Only you know yourself, and you know what to do with the amber box of your potential without wasting the contents on other people’s expectations. Everything will work out - happiness, if it doesn’t work out - wisdom. Leave a trail of your invincible confidence in the air.

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Call it selfish, immature, or whatever you want. But there comes a point where I stop caring about being understood by people who were never careful with me in the first place. I’ve spent too much time overexplaining myself, giving chances, and staying accessible to people who only know how to disturb my peace. So if disappearing is what i need to do to save what's left of me, then maybe that's exactly what i'll choose. because there's only so much of yourself you can keep giving before you realize you're the one being emptied in the process.

Not every silence is cruel, sometimes it's survival. sometimes it's choosing not to keep entertaining people who only bring confusion, stress, disappointment, and emotional exhaustion into your life. sometimes it's realizing that not everyone deserves access to you just because they once had it. and sometimes protecting your peace means leaving without a long explanation, without one last conversation, and without trying to make everyone understand why you had to go. because the truth is, not everyone who hurt you is entitled to a soft goodbye.

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You can do so many things right, but some people will only look at the things you're doing wrong and use it against you to define you. Sad, isn't it?

How wonderful would it be if we could all pick up on peoples goodness instead of focusing on their flaws.

It's so easy to cancel someone out after being hurt or disappointed by them, but was there ever a time when they were genuinely good to you? Just think about this.❤️

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Stop carrying things that were never yours to carry.

Not every opinion deserves your attention. Not every problem is yours to solve. You can't control how people see you, but you can choose not to carry the weight of their expectations. Ask yourself:
"Is this actually mine to worry about?"

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